Child maintenance help.
We all need a bit of help when it comes to the UK’s child maintenance system. This is even more true when one parent won’t fulfil their financial responsibilities to their children, as is often the case.
My child maintenance story.
Writing about my own experiences with child maintenance hasn’t always been easy. It’s difficult because of needing to maintain a level of confidentiality for all parties, but I find it essential, as non-payment of child support is something that should be eradicated from our society.
I feel the need to help others with my experiences, as I’ve been helped in the past by other writers.
Here are my posts about maintenance and my child maintenance story:
Withholding Child Maintenance Is Financial Abuse
– the blunt truth behind some absent parents’ choice to refuse to pay maintenance is that they are committing financial abuse, a form of domestic abuse that lasts long after a relationship ends and is impossible for the victim to escape on their own.
The Child Maintenance Saga
– this post sums up my journey and is the first I wrote about my decade-long attempts to receive child maintenance.
– a letter to my MP about the £4.2 million owed in child maintenance arrears in Hyndburn, my local area. You can check how much is owed in your area through the link, and write your own letter to your MP.
Everything I Learned From My Mother (About Money) – amongst other things, I talk about my mother’s example of providing as a single parent.
Why write about child maintenance?
My story, of raising my son without financial support from his father, is heartbreakingly commonplace. Somehow, though, we’ve become immune to it. We just don’t want to talk about it. I think I know why… and I’m going to talk about the reasons, and keep talking about the problems too.
Why? Not because I think I can change the world or even this country, but because I know that by keeping quiet, the only thing that’s guaranteed is that nothing will change. Follow my story as I see how much I can change.
The Child Maintenance Planner
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The Child Maintenance Planner is my contribution to our fight. I wish I could fix the problems in the system, but I can’t… however, I think I can help make the administration a bit less tedious with a fantastic bit of stationery (one of my loves) and a bit of insight on how to organise the process.
I’ll keep you informed about developments in child support and in my own story, and the support networks available for you.